I just got done walking two miles. I was supposed to run two miles, but I made it about 5 feet down the road when I remembered: running sucks.
During my walk I remembered that I haven’t updated you on my bucket list progress since…. a long time ago. Like before I had a baby. I’m not sure if my life existed before I had a baby, because I can’t remember what it was like before I had to wake up twice during the night to feed my hungry nugget before she goes into “beast mode.”
I could literally write a million posts my snuggle nugget, but I’ll spare you the gushing. Let me just say this, she’s the most perfect, beautiful baby in the Americas.
I’m not sure about this bonnet…
Here’s my progress:
1. Figure out (and write about) our next big financial goal (January) –Done!
After we paid off our mortgage last year, we definitely went on auto-pilot financially. So, we set a new goal to replace my salary with rental income. I wrote about the tiny progress we’re making toward our goal here.
2. Take a babymoon (February, March, or April) –Done!
Read about the time I hiked to the tallest point in Arkansas while super pregnant here.
3. Get our nursery ready (March) –Done!
If you’re wondering if my baby has a place to sleep, worry no more. Here is her nursery. Warning! If you’re offended by the color pink, don’t keep reading!!!
A big thank you to my mom and sister who helped me organize the nursery while I sat in the rocking chair dreaming of slushes from Sonic. Also, my brilliant co-worker sewed the bedding and curtains. She did an amazing job!
4. Finish book (April) –Not even close
I wrote a really crappy book, but I’m afraid to finish it because it’s so bad. I need to figure this one out…
5. Have a baby! (May) –Done!
Two months and three days ago, I had a baby.
6. Complete 5 Treehouse “tracks” (September)- In progress
I’ve finished one and a half tracks. I’m going to try to finish another one by the end of next month.
7. Get back to pre-baby weight (October)- Done… sort of 🙂
I gained around 23 pounds when I was pregnant.
Good news: since my baby was 10 pounds, I was able to lose the weight pretty quickly. The doctor basically just pulled half of the weight out of me. The other half fell off by breastfeeding (which is super hard. Why didn’t you tell me?).
Bad news: all of my belly parts are still not back to where they were before I was pregnant. And, I’m pretty sure it’s going to be a while until they are.
8. Run a family 5k (November)- Not even close.
Please see the description at the beginning of this post. Again, running sucks.
9. Check out our tithe/giving situation (reoccurring starting in January)- Done!
We started tithing a couple years ago, and it’s been really rewarding. But, I am pretty stingy, so we hadn’t adjusted our tithing amount since then. Also, we kind of started slipping on tithing at all during busy months. So, this year I’ve made more of an effort to tithe every month and on all of our income. We’ve only missed one month so far. I’m counting this as a success!
10. Use my Real Estate License (December)- Done!
I’m really enjoying learning about the world of real estate. I’ve written several contracts, and I had my first closing last month.
Overall, I’ve done a lot on my bucket list for this year. But, some of the most intense items are still unfinished… Good thing I have about five months left. Bad thing is the baby thinks I should attend to her needs 24/7 :). We will see how this goes!
Hello! What have you been up to?
I haven’t been doing much. Just growing a human. No biggie. I can’t believe how this baby thing works. It’s like a science fiction book. I feel like I need to go back to 8th grade health class.
We are officially on baby watch. I am 39 weeks and 3 days pregnant. Which translates into: I’m completely emotionally unstable. I cried when my doctor said I was measuring big, I cried reading an article about babies, and I cried for five other things I can’t even remember. But, I’m so excited at the same time!!!
I wanted to document my pregnancy, but I can’t keep up with my growing “bump.” So, here’s my favorite from this week. I was out feeding the neighborhood horse (yes, we have a neighborhood horse. His name is Stanley, and he stops by every weekend to get carrots, usually on Sundays after we go to Walmart). Stanley was pretty interested in my belly– either that or he was trying to get more carrots.
Since I’m not sure how many more days we have before this baby arrives, I wanted to catch you up on one of my Bucket List goals for this year: going on a baby moon with my husband.
I wanted to go somewhere BIG. But, as I got more pregnant, we couldn’t decide on where to go. I kept suggesting places like “exotic alligator farms, Russian cruises, and Antarctic adventures.” But, my husband kept saying, “ughhhhh, I don’t know.” After a few of those conversations, I finally got to the root of the problem: my husband is/was scared of the following:
1. Me going into labor on a plane
2. Me going into labor in a foreign country
3. Me going into labor on a mountain
So naturally, we ended up spending our baby moon on a mountain!
What’s a baby moon if you don’t conquer a fear? We headed up to Mount Magazine. It’s a state park in Arkansas with lodges, cabins, a pool, and hiking. Neither of us had been there before, and it was only a few hours away from where we live, so my husband didn’t have to worry about me going into labor on a plane or in a foreign country.
Here is part of the awesome lodge…
And views that could make any baby want to arrive…
Because we were already on a mountain, we decided to try and make it to the highest point in Arkansas called Signal Hill. We signed our names to the registry to prove we made it. I thought about sending someone else up to sign it for us, but what would that teach our unborn child?
Before you start thinking I’m some kind of pregnant hiking superhero, I should mention that Signal Hill was only about a mile from the lodge we were staying in. Also, it was a pretty smooth hike. So, I really didn’t do much, but don’t tell anyone.
Other than hiking, we swam, ate, and napped. Our baby moon was wonderful. I had the best company ever. Since I did so much napping, I guess it’s good we didn’t go on a Russian Cruise. I probably would have just slept a lot.
Here we are at our last dinner (at Mount Magazine). Don’t worry, we’ve been eating dinner since then.
Thanks for reading this! I hope you’ve been having the best couple of months. I’ve got some pictures of our nursery to show you, and then I can’t wait to tell you about the awesome new project we’re working on (besides the baby, of course!)
I’ve been waiting to post because I wanted to tell you some exciting news. Then, it didn’t happen. So, I’ve really been waiting to tell you that we don’t have exciting news. Except for our most exciting news: I am still cooking a human–in my belly– not on the stove. That’s illegal.
This bucket list update is going downhill FAST. To keep this post from deteriorating any further, I’m going to start the update.
1. Figure out (and write about) our next big financial goal (January) -In progress
We paid off our mortgage last year, and since then we’ve been pondering our next big goal. It took us a little longer than expected, but I think we’ve finally figured it out. I’ll write about it soon.
2. Take a babymoon (February, March, or April) -In progress
We haven’t decided where to go yet, but we just got back from Nashville and we’re headed on another trip in a couple of weeks. Since these trips involve my husband working, I just don’t feel like they are babymoon worthy. However, if we keep traveling, we might have to just pick a trip and call it our babymoon. Here’s hoping our accidental babymoon takes us somewhere warm!
3. Get our nursery ready (March) -In progress
We have picked out fabric, ordered swatches, and are just waiting on it to arrive. Also, we have a crib and a chair, so the only furniture we’re missing is a dresser. Any ideas where to get a unique piece at a uniquely low price?
4. Finish book (April) -In progress
I’ve been listening to an audio book on writing to get back in the swing of things. I’m just stuck. I have a rough draft that I wrote last year, but now I hate it. It’s also about half the length that it needs to be. This month, I’m going to devote a block of time to it. Then, maybe I can get my head back into the project.
5. Have a baby! (May) -In progress
In progress! Currently, I’m 24 weeks pregnant. I’ve started feeling the baby move, which in the words of Amy Poehler from the movie Baby Momma feels like, “when you eat a meatball sandwich and then the meatball sandwich starts kicking you.”
6. Complete 5 Treehouse “tracks” (September)- In progress
7. Get back to pre-baby weight (October)- Not even close.
I’m not working on this one quite yet. I’m actually going in the other direction thanks to a little lady named Debbie. Come here Little Debbies! Do you have a bigger sister, or should I just eat five of you?
8. Run a family 5k (November)- Not even close.
Not even thinking about this one either.
9. Check out our tithe/giving situation (reoccurring starting in January)- In progress.
Good news, we’ve made progress on this one! I’ll explain soon. I think I have a new system that will make it easier to do this every month.
10. Use my Real Estate License (December)- Done!
This is the exciting news I wanted to tell you about. I wrote a real estate contract last week! We put in an offer on a rental house, but we still don’t know if it’s been accepted. It’s a foreclosure, and the bank is toying with us like Pink and Rick with birthday hats (see below and picture us as the birthday hat). I don’t even know if we’re going to get the house yet. Honestly, I doubt we get it. If our offer does go through, I promise to let you know. Even if it doesn’t, I’ll let you know. Unfortunately, right now there’s nothing to know. I wish there was.
Well, there it is! The bucket list update for January. How are your goals going?
Hello Hump Day-ers,
It’s time for my 2015 Bucket List! This is the third year I’ve made a list of items to accomplish (see 2013 list here and 2014 list here). While I’m not always successful, I think writing it goals is extremely helpful in bringing focus to my year. Also, a lady I work with says you need to “speak your life into existence.” Isn’t that cool? You can create your life with your own words. I know it’s pretty hippity-dippity, but I kind of believe it’s true!
But before I get started, here’s a picture of our New Year’s trip to Dallas. I was trying to “speak” a glass of wine into my life, but the baby told me it wasn’t interested.
2015 Bucket List
1. Figure out (and write about) our next big financial goal (January)
Since we paid off our mortgage, I’ve felt a little lost. I’m extremely goal-oriented, and I’ve missed having something to track, measure, and dream about. So, we’re working on coming up with out next big goal. I’ll let you know what it is when we figure it out!
2. Take a babymoon (February, March, or April)
I’m not sure where we’re going to go yet, but I can’t wait to hang out with my husband for a week– or ten. Hopefully our trip includes some hours of travel, I love being able to talk to him for hours in a car or on a plane. He’s always trying to get me to take a nap, though!
3. Get our nursery ready (March)
I’m not sure what comes first, the bedding or the paint color. Any advice on where to start?
4. Finish book (April)
This is a leftover from my 2014 Bucket List. It is also the most terrifying goal on my list.
5. Have a baby! (May)
This one is coming if we’re ready or not. What do babies need, again?
6. Complete 5 Treehouse “tracks” (September)
Treehouse is an online school that teaches people to design websites/write code/program. And, they teach in a way that a toddler (or blogger!) can understand. Unfortunately, each track takes about 50 hours, and I’ve been working on my first track for the past three months. This may take a while…
Note: this is not an advertisement, nor do I get paid for any content on this blog– unless you’re looking for someone to give your money too, then I’ll take it!
7. Get back to pre-baby weight (October)
I actually stole this one from my friend Stephanie. Her baby is due just a month after mine, and I thought it was an excellent goal to put on my list. Plus, what’s a Bucket List without a weight goal? Predictability is my main move.
8. Run a family 5k (November)
My husband suggested this one, and I thought it was a great idea. Last year, we ran a 5k and there were a lot of people who brought their babies along, so we thought this could be a cool thing to do– weather and baby permitting.
9. Check out our tithe/giving situation (reoccurring starting in January)
10. Use my Real Estate License (December)
I’m dying to use my license to purchase our first rental house (and build a side business). Maybe this year will FINALLY be the year of the rental house. We’ve been working on this since 2013, and I’m the least patient person in America.
Well, there it is, my 2015 Bucket List. I’ve learned a lot about goals since I started making a bucket list in 2013. This year, I’ve decided to front-load my list. Hopefully, I will be able to complete several of my items before the baby comes. I’ve never had a baby before, but I keep hearing they like attention.
Have you made any goals or Bucket List items for this year?
Hello Citizens of 2015!
I was gearing up to write about my 2015 Bucket List, when I remembered, I haven’t recapped my 2014 Bucket List. A year ago, when I wrote my 2014 Bucket List, I had no idea what the year would bring. My husband is calling it our heartbeat year because we had extreme ups (here and here) and extreme lows (here and here). But despite everything, we are excited to start 2015, because we are extremely blessed!
Even though, I didn’t make as much progress on my list as I like, I still think 2014 is a year to be celebrated, so if you will excuse my lack of progress: here is my 2014 Bucket List Recap.
1. Organize one room in my house every month- HALF SUCCESS HALF FAIL
The insane part about organizing your house is: a few months later you have to do it again–especially if you live in a 1,100 square foot house. Here are the rooms I organized (that need to be done again):
February: Laundry Room
March: Master Bedroom
April: Living Room.
May: Our outside storage room. True confession: my husband organized this one. But, I can still count it, right?
December: We cleaned out the future nursery!
2. Lose 10 pounds through the Paleo Diet or South Beach Diet
Well, this kind of went the opposite direction. I kept putting it off, and when I was ready to get started– I got pregnant. According to my doctor, I’ve gained four pounds. At least it’s all for a good cause, eating for two, right? Unfortunately, the other one I’m eating for only weighs 10 ounces, so I’m really just eating for 1.00001.
3. Go on a Vegas Vacation (March)- AWESOME SUCCESS!
We had the best time! Check it out.
4. Run 365 miles –FAIL
… and then I totally fell of the wagon. Not only did I fall off, but I rolled all the way down a hill and into a creek. Then, when I was in the creek I found a fish named Nemo. Pixar used my story for their classic animated film. Just kidding, the fish’s name was Fred.
5. Go one month without artificial sugar (February)- SUCCESS!
Finally, a goal I’m actually killing! I stopped eating/drinking artificial sugar in February, and I haven’t looked back. Don’t worry, I’m still eating/drinking PLENTY of regular sugar. I didn’t get too healthy. I didn’t want to shock my system!
6. Learn to
hula-hoop or whistle (June)- SUCCESS!
I’m officially a whistler! I’m a terrible whistler, but at least I can make a sound– annnnndddd it sounds like a whistle.
7. Go skydiving
(July) (August/September)- FAIL
I was getting ready to book my adventure, and then I found out I was pregnant. For some reason, my husband didn’t want me to jump out of a plane anymore. And, I’m obedient so I listened (haha).
8. Write 2 blog posts every week- HUGEST FAIL EVER
Not only did I completely fail at this goal, but I couldn’t even keep up with my typical, weekly blog post slackery.
9. Become completely debt free– including paying off our house (September)- HUGE SUCCESS!
If I had to pick ONE goal to complete this year, this one would be it– and we actually did it! Even better, we accomplished it two months earlier than expected. I still can’t believe we did this. It feels amazing, like a present every month. Seriously. Every month, I get ready to pay our mortgage, and I remember it’s gone!
10. Write a fiction book and sell it on Amazon (October)- FAIL
I’ve been working on this. I’m about halfway through with the first draft. I’m going to move this to my 2015 Bucket List.
11. Do something spontaneous (November)- FAIL
I don’t even feel bad about this one, because I totally forgot it was on my list!
12. Make $1,000 of side income a month, by freelance writing/blogging/video projects (December)- MOSTLY FAIL and a very tiny bit of success
Typically, I didn’t clear over $100 a month, except for June. In June, I picked up a side gig at a local university and totally made my goal.
So there it is, Pink and Rick’s official 2014 Bucket List Recap! I promise to do better next year. I’m going to post my 2015 Bucket List next week, so get ready!
Do you have any Bucket List Items/Goals/New Year’s Resolutions for 2015?
We’ve been officially married for four years today.
But, I’m pretty sure we’ve been married our whole lives. It’s pretty sick, but I think we might have been made for each other. I know, GROSS! Here are my reasons: we’re hella goofy, we’re hella silly, and… we both hella lurve ice cream. I’m not going to make up any more words for the rest of this post. Only dictionary words from here on out. Promisk.
So, marriage. Woah. It’s a pretty weird deal. Sometimes it’s hard, and sometimes it’s really easy. Sometimes you feel really connected to your spouse, and sometimes you feel like two complete strangers. Sometimes you have the same goals, and sometimes you have different ones. It’s interesting to be in the middle of something so fluid, but at the same time, stable.
The first couple years we were married were the hardest. Sometimes, I felt really confined. I felt like being married restricted the jobs I could have. I felt like being married restricted where I could live. And, it sort of does, for me anyway. But, jobs and locations don’t matter to me much anymore. What maters to me is that we have a strong marriage, and my choices are based on that– not moving to South America on a whim (which I hope we can do one day!).
I’d like to say my view on marriage has changed gradually over the years, and it has, but sometimes one event can snap your life into perspective. For me, that event happened in February.
I’ve spent my whole life saying, “I’m fine.” I wanted to be tough and strong. I didn’t want to rely on anyone. And, mostly, I hated it when people felt sorry for me.
Interestingly enough, I don’t care if people feel sorry for me anymore either.
A really bad thing happened this year. And, it’s why I quit writing on my blog so much. I just kept writing this post and then deleting it, not brave enough to tell you the truth.
In February, I had a miscarriage.
It was pretty awful, and I tried to ignore it for a while. I tried to act like, “I’m fine.”
But, I wasn’t really “fine.” I couldn’t get the pain out of my mind. Also, I couldn’t handle the emotions of it all, so I tried to cover it up. I wrote about goals and paying off our house, but the entire time the only thing I could think about was… that night. The night I spent crippled in pain, lying on the bathroom floor crying.
My husband is the only person I couldn’t act “fine” around. He sat next to me when we got the news. He watched me cry for about a week. He helped me get out of bed. And, he still makes me breakfast every morning.
Through my husband, I found out why marriage isn’t confining– it’s one of the few things that is really freeing. Like any good relationship you can be free when you can truly be yourself. When you can truly tell someone how you feel. When you don’t even have to tell someone how you feel– they just know.
Ultimately, marriage is about dragging each other out of bed. It’s about leaning on someone because you can’t stand up anymore. It’s about the ebbs and flow of life. It’s about healing together a little bit every day. That’s what we’ve been doing, healing.
I hope you haven’t had to go through a miscarriage, but if you have, feel free to talk to me about it. I’ve had the best support from my husband, family and friends. I would love to be there for you, too.
Happy Anniversary Husband! Thanks for being there for me through the good and bad!